Ethel & Noble

On the bed I laid
Down waiting for my final
Hour until you showed up
And taught me the meaning of life
I didn’t know what love felt like
Till I stood up again
Now smile each time wake up
Because loving you is healing me

– writernoble

HOW TO HEAL FROM BREAKUP

1. Cry as much as your heart wants to. Crying heals.

2. You did your best. Tell yourself, “I did the best I could.” Human beings are not belongings so you can’t force someone to be in your life forever.

3. Please don’t say, “He cheated on me because I’m ugly.” or “She left me because I’m poor or not handsome like her new man.” The relationship did not end because of those reasons.

4. Improve yourself. Learn a new skill. Study beyond your profession.

5. Dispose of the property of the person.

6. Try as much as you can to not check up on your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend. He’s living happily while you’re still hurting, and it burns you inside to see him with someone else because that should have been you. I know he didn’t give you the closure you desired, but he’s moved on, and it’s time for you to move on, too. You’re stopping yourself from healing. Let go.

7. Release all anger. Anger is stronger than hate, even love. It is an irrational emotion that stops us from committing to a new relationship.

8. The most important point which you shouldn’t forget is that: The person left you because it was time for the person to leave your life, and so that someone better con enter into your life.

BACK TO YOU
It is possible to heal. A tree lakes time before it grows.
Be patient with time
Be patient with yourself
Some days, you’ll feel like you’re going backward. Like all the progress you’ve made was an illusion. And you’ll want to quit. But you shouldn’t. Healing is never linear, and it’s going to take time.