1. Don’t jump to conclusions: Maybe that person didn’t call you because they are not feeling well, or maybe that person didn’t stop to greet you because they have important business to attend to. Life is tough, when someone is your friend or lover or child, or parent, isn’t it right to make life less stressful for them?
2. It’s the thought that counts: Just because they didn’t make a cake for you as you did for them but instead, they sang your favorite song for you doesn’t mean that they love you less. Look at the effort, appreciate the fact that they made a move. Not everyone will even care to know your favorite song or to even sing it for you.
3. Focus on the good side: You are sad because the person who you stayed up late for to be the first to wish you a happy birthday didn’t even remember your birthday. Be happy and focus on the people who remembered your birthday. Don’t turn your birthday into a funeral by crying.
4. When one door closes, Jesus will open another door: My boyfriend forgot my birthday. We strolled by each other at school and he didn’t wish me. I cried but my roommates threw a party for me and baked cake too. My first birthday party! The God who created you will surely take care of you.
5. Silent cries: There are times in life when you go through some things that only God and you know about. And then you make foolish decisions during that period so that the pain will not happen again. God heard those decisions and He brought 7 men who make me believe in men and love again. They pulled me out of depression, showed me why I should love myself, and encouraged me to pursue my dreams. There is a God up there who sees those tears and He won’t give up on you.
BACK TO YOU
Your friends should motivate and inspire you. Your circle should be well rounded and supportive. Keep it tight. Quality over quantity. Always
Ethel & Noble 
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