Ethel & Noble

1. When your trust is constantly broken.
This shows that they don’t have regard for you and protecting your interest in that relationship is not a priority to them.
If someone truly cares about you, they wouldn’t betray your trust.

2. You need to change who you are for them.
At the very core, who are you? If you have to be someone you’re not, change your identity just to fit in or be accepted by them, then you might be in the wrong circle.

3. You’re the only one making sacrifices/efforts.
If you’re always the one reaching out, they are never available to help you but when it’s their turn- you are.
If it’s always uncomfortable for you and never for them, then maybe it’s time to relax a bit and see what happens when you back off for a while.

4. You feel drained after spending time with them.
It is important to reflect on why you feel drained after being with them. It is not a good sign but understanding the problem can guide you on how to solve the issue but this is usually a bad sign.

5. You are being abused or can see signs of such.
Are you being emotionally abused? Are you being mentally, financially, or physically abused? Do you suspect such?
Can you see the signs? If yes, it may be time to let go.

BACK TO YOU
How do you go back to being strangers with someone who has seen your soul…
I know it’s not easy for you to let go of them but you have to for yourself.
Because in order to make space for everything you deserve, you have to let go of everything that’s in the way.