Tag: child
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Words A Kid Would Love to Hear From a Parent
1. I love you even if you fall sick often 2. You are useful 3. You are free to be yourself. I won’t judge you. 4. I love you even if you have a big stomach 5. You are intelligent 6. You are brave 7. You can rely on me 8. You are wise 9.…
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The Current Economy is Not an Economy to Multiply
“I love you”“I love you too”Diaper, 75k “I can’t wait to see you”Feeding bottle set, 90k “When are you coming back to Abuja?”Breast pump, 130k “When is your plane landing?” Baby clothes, 15k per outfit “Can’t wait to have you in my arms again”Have you bought 20k clothes? “Can’t wait” Baby sterilizer, 33k “I want…
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NAVIGATING THE CONSEQUENCES OF GROWING UP IN A DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILY
IF YOU GREW UP IN A DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILY, AS AN ADULT YOU MIGHT… A family is dysfunctional or unhealthy when your basic needs are not met as a child because your parents and caregivers may have struggled with alcoholism addiction, compulsive behaviours, violence, abuse and more.As a child, your emotional needs were often ignored. You…
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SEVEN IMPORTANT EMOTIONAL ABUSE TACTICS EVERYONE SHOULD KNOW
Have you ever been in a relationship where your instincts are telling you that this person is not sincere about his mistakes? Have you ever met someone who makes you feel like they are your jailer instead of your lover? Below are the signs I noticed after being with different people through different forms of…
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THINGS I WISH MY PARENTS PRACTICE MORE WHILE RAISING ME
Having parents, when one of them gives you too much love and the other one gives you little to no love makes you experience different things every day. Below are some of the things I wished my parents practice while raising me. There’s a big difference between : 1. The parent punishes the child over…
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SIGNS YOUR MOTHER IS A NARCISSIST
In your eyes, I’m always too weakTo live by myself To you, my dear motherI should be on a sickBed – to be available anytimeYou want to converse whatYou like but you are neverAvailable for what I wantTo discuss. I’m greaterThan everyone else only When I tick the boxes in your listSometimes I feel you…
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SOME THINGS THAT CHILDREN LEARN FROM THEIR PARENTS
1. Asking for help – is a sign of weakness, a sign that you don’t want to help yourself. It means that you don’t want to be independent 2. Trust = pain – Your parents can be the first people that teach you how to betray people, 3. Manipulation gets you things – your parents…
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WHAT IS THE NEGLECTED CHILD
Neglect is not only when your dad runs away or when your mom leaves you with your grandma. Neglect can also occur when your dad doesn’t treat you when you are sick, like buying drugs or taking you to the hospital or lending to you. Disregard also occurs when a mother leaves a teenager at…