Tag: parents
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HOW AN EMOTIONALLY SAFE HOME LOOKS LIKE
Does your home feel emotionally safe? Find out below. 1. Feeling comfortable to express your thoughts and feelings. 2. Listening to each other’s point of view during a disagreement. 3. No name calling or other disrespectful behavior. 4. Focusing on problem solving rather than blame. 5. Providing feedback as opposed to criticism. 6. Often showing…
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SIGNS THAT YOU GREW UP IN AN UNSTABLE HOUSEHOLD
Here’s a post about the loneliness of growing up in an unstable household.Living in instability can cause anxiety. But we often forget it can often make you feel extremely lonely.And loneliness itself, is a state where your social needs are lower than what you expect or desire. 1. Believing there’s something unloveable about you. 2.…
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The Current Economy is Not an Economy to Multiply
“I love you”“I love you too”Diaper, 75k “I can’t wait to see you”Feeding bottle set, 90k “When are you coming back to Abuja?”Breast pump, 130k “When is your plane landing?” Baby clothes, 15k per outfit “Can’t wait to have you in my arms again”Have you bought 20k clothes? “Can’t wait” Baby sterilizer, 33k “I want…
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NAVIGATING THE CONSEQUENCES OF GROWING UP IN A DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILY
IF YOU GREW UP IN A DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILY, AS AN ADULT YOU MIGHT… A family is dysfunctional or unhealthy when your basic needs are not met as a child because your parents and caregivers may have struggled with alcoholism addiction, compulsive behaviours, violence, abuse and more.As a child, your emotional needs were often ignored. You…
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WHY YOU SHOULD ALLOW YOUR CHILDREN TO FOLLOW THEIR DREAMS
First-day and first-week sales of Jungkook’s all-English debut album have surpassed any previous record set by a solo album. The album sold more than two million copies on the day of release. It also sold an incredible 2,438,483 copies in less than a week, making it the best-selling soloist album of all time. Jeon Jungkook…
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HOW TO COPE WITH AN ABUSIVE PARENT
Just in case you don’t understand the way your parent(s) are behaving, but you know that they don’t love you the way other children are loved by their parents, please click on the links below to get clarification. Signs Your Mother is a Narcissist And What is the Neglected Child 1. Love yourself: you are…
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SEVEN IMPORTANT EMOTIONAL ABUSE TACTICS EVERYONE SHOULD KNOW
Have you ever been in a relationship where your instincts are telling you that this person is not sincere about his mistakes? Have you ever met someone who makes you feel like they are your jailer instead of your lover? Below are the signs I noticed after being with different people through different forms of…
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THINGS I WISH MY PARENTS PRACTICE MORE WHILE RAISING ME
Having parents, when one of them gives you too much love and the other one gives you little to no love makes you experience different things every day. Below are some of the things I wished my parents practice while raising me. There’s a big difference between : 1. The parent punishes the child over…
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SIGNS YOUR MOTHER IS A NARCISSIST
In your eyes, I’m always too weakTo live by myself To you, my dear motherI should be on a sickBed – to be available anytimeYou want to converse whatYou like but you are neverAvailable for what I wantTo discuss. I’m greaterThan everyone else only When I tick the boxes in your listSometimes I feel you…
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SOME THINGS THAT CHILDREN LEARN FROM THEIR PARENTS
1. Asking for help – is a sign of weakness, a sign that you don’t want to help yourself. It means that you don’t want to be independent 2. Trust = pain – Your parents can be the first people that teach you how to betray people, 3. Manipulation gets you things – your parents…
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