Ethel & Noble

In your eyes, I’m always too weak
To live by myself
To you, my dear mother
I should be on a sick
Bed – to be available anytime
You want to converse what
You like but you are never
Available for what I want
To discuss.

I’m greater
Than everyone else only
When I tick the boxes in your list
Sometimes I feel you are lonely
That’s why you are caging me
But when you show off your
Friends in front of me
I feel like an orphan

– a poem by writernoble

CHARACTERISTICS OF NARCISSISTIC MOTHERS

1. Everything she does is deniable.

2. She violates your boundaries.

3. She favoritizes one child over another.

4. She undermines.

5. She demeans, criticizes and denigrates.

6. She makes you look crazy.

7. She’s envious.

8. She’s a liar in too many ways to count.

9. She has to be the center of attention all the time.

10. She manipulates your emotions in order to feed on your pain.

11. She is never wrong about anything.

12. She seems to have no awareness that other people even have feelings.

13. She blames.

14. She destroys your relationships.

15. As a last resort, she goes pathetic.

BACK TO YOU
A narcissist doesn’t break your heart they break your spirit, and that’s why it takes so long to heal.
People can take away what you have (your spirit). But they can’t take away who you become. And who you become will make you either happy or sad.